7 habits of highly
effective teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to
foster the belief that is impossible to create an atmosphere of win-win in
every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion
or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your
teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of being
threatened by them. Win-win is a belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice
and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either.
You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But you also care
about abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around.
There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet.
Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking
win-win is the good feelings it brings on. The truth test of whether or not you
are thinking win-win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-lose and
lose-win thinking will cloud your adjustment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-win will fill
heart with happy and serene thoughts. it will give you confidence. even fill
you with light. Think win-win or no deal,.
choose the right
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